I can't really imagine what it is like for Ryan when I ask him what he thinks or what he wants me to do.....how much pressure is that to put someone under??
His reply is: he wants me to do what I am happy with and that he will support me all the way. I know he will but what about the menopause?? what about no more babies?? its so hard to demand complete honesty when really I may not be able to cope with it and like he said ultimately it is my decision, I need to make my choice and make it a choice I can always live with because if they take my ovaries there is no going back.